Rough and Ready
Dear Sindy,
Taboo
I have an unusual problem in that I am getting plenty of sex but
the wrong type! My girlfriend is very sensuous and gentle but I
like it rough and more crude. She fi nds that a turn-off. Sensual
sex to me is just for the odd occasion but when I’m rough with
her she doesn’t like it. Are we doomed to part?
WITH
Anna, London
SINDY SIN
Not necessarily. It could be inhibition that is stopping her
throwing you around the bed whilst swearing her head off. I
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presume you have aroused her to the state where she is ready
to satisfy both your lusts, so it could just be a matter of taste.
Some people are born romantic. They see porno-style sex as
having nothing to do with love or affection, which, let’s face
it, is right in many cases. Have you tried watching vigorous
lesbian love-making on lezzy porn fi lms? There’s plenty of
Blood Ties
material out there. Knowing it turns you on should be enough
to motivate her to try at least. If she doesn’t even want to try Dear Sindy,
and fulfi l your desires and the relationship is not that strong, My girlfriend always wants sex during her period and frankly,
then maybe you should move on. But similarly, you mustn’t I fi nd it a real turn-off. She sees it as a test of our love! Help!
force something on her that she obviously doesn’t like and Siobhan, London
you should try and make love to her in the style that turns
her on. That way she has no excuse not to reciprocate. OOOOOOh! Get you! Freaked out by the river of life are
we? What’s the problem? She is asking to be accepted as a
human being and doesn’t see why she should feel ashamed
or apologise for it. Presumably, you don’t like having sex
during yours either. That’s one quarter of your fertile life
without sex, and if you’re not in sync with her that’s two
weeks out of every four! No wonder she’s complaining!
Grow up, buy a douche for her if you must and get on
with your wifely duties, bitch.
Behind the Times
Dear Sindy,
My girlfriend is completely against anal sex, giving or taking,
whereas I fi nd it a huge turn-on. Any suggestions?
Jaine, Sheffi eld
Well, I presume you have already tried some things. The
secret is: don’t nag her, don’t rush her, and don’t push her
into anything she doesn’t want to do. Most people are
ashamed about being ‘dirty’ and
the prospect of you putting in a
thumb and pulling out a plum
is mortifying to them. Douches
and bidets are a boon. Softly,
softly circle her anus with your
fi nger or tongue when she is at
the highest point of arousal.
Under no circumstances
try to penetrate
until you have had
a favourable
response to
this for some
weeks. If she’s
weird about
touching you,
get her to wear
a surgical glove
and play doctors
and nurses. It’s
often the naughty
sensuality of latex
that swings it.
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